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\nEnski
\nknattspyrnuma\u00f0urinn Sam Tillen kemur oft og i\u00f0ulega me\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0a pistla \u00e1 www.fotbolti.net<\/a>  og gaman hefur m\u00e9r fundist a\u00f0 lesa pistlana
\nhans hinga\u00f0 til. \u00de\u00f3 ver\u00f0 \u00e9g a\u00f0 fetta fingur \u00fat \u00ed s\u00ed\u00f0asta pistil hans a\u00f0
\nknattspyrnumenn s\u00e9u ekki fyrirmyndir annarra og s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi barna \u201eog setja ekki
\nsta\u00f0al \u00ed si\u00f0fer\u00f0iskennd\u201c (Tillen, 2012<\/span>) \u00feegar \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 var minnst \u00ed
\nbreskum sj\u00f3nvarps\u00fe\u00e6tti, a\u00f0 oflauna\u00f0ir og [fordekra\u00f0ir] knattspyrnumenn h\u00f6gu\u00f0u
\ns\u00e9r eins og h\u00e1lfvitar innan sem utan vallar \u00feegar \u00feeir \u00ed raun og veru \u00e6ttu a\u00f0
\ngera s\u00e9r grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feeir v\u00e6ru einmitt fyrirmyndir.<\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n
\n\u00deegar kemur a\u00f0
\nuppeldi barna \u00fe\u00e1 hefur allt \u00e1hrif, b\u00e6\u00f0i g\u00f3\u00f0 e\u00f0a sl\u00e6m, hva\u00f0a nafni sem \u00fea\u00f0
\ngegnir. Menn og konur sem hafa knattspyrnu (og \u00f6\u00f0rum \u00ed\u00fer\u00f3ttum) a\u00f0 a\u00f0alatvinnu
\neru (\u00fev\u00ed ver og mi\u00f0ur \u00ed m\u00f6rgum tilfellum) fyrirmyndir barna og unglinga r\u00e9tt
\neins og allar a\u00f0rar hli\u00f0ar margbreytileika l\u00edfsins. Sam Tillen tekur sem d\u00e6mi
\nPaul nokkurn Gascoigne \u00ed pistli s\u00ednum, enskan atvinnumann \u00ed knattspyrnu, sem
\nsinn innbl\u00e1stur en samt \u00fe\u00f3 ekki sem eiginlega fyrirmynd (Tillen, 2012<\/span>). <\/div>\n
\nGazza eins og
\nhann var kalla\u00f0ur, var jafn\u00feekktur fyrir sl\u00e6mu hli\u00f0ar s\u00ednar r\u00e9tt eins og a\u00f0
\neltast vi\u00f0 le\u00f0urtu\u00f0runa, sem margir elska a\u00f0 anna\u00f0 hvort a\u00f0 gera (hvort sem
\n\u00feeir f\u00e1 borga\u00f0 fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 e\u00f0ur ei) e\u00f0a a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 atvinnumenn gera \u00fea\u00f0 (og
\njafnvel borga fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 m\u00e1na\u00f0arlaun s\u00edn). Gazza h\u00f3f feril sinn sem atvinnuma\u00f0ur
\n\u00ed unglingali\u00f0i Newcastle 1983 \u00fe\u00e1 16 \u00e1ra gamall. Eitthva\u00f0 sem gamall kennari
\nhans sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 m\u00f6guleikarnir \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 ger\u00f0ist v\u00e6ru einn \u00e1 m\u00f3ti millj\u00f3n (Gascoigne og  Davies, 2004<\/span>). <\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n
\n\u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 vera ungur a\u00f0 aldri \u00fe\u00e1 var Gazza
\nhokinn af reynslu og henni ekkert endilega svo g\u00f3\u00f0ri og g\u00e6fulegri.
\nHeimilisa\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur voru ekki g\u00f3\u00f0ar, fj\u00f6lskyldan bj\u00f3 \u00fer\u00f6ngt \u00ed h\u00fasn\u00e6\u00f0i \u00e1 vegum
\nborgarinnar, flutti oft og \u00fev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur var fj\u00f6lskyldan ekki laus vi\u00f0
\nheimilisofbeldi. Fa\u00f0ir hans var\u00f0 \u00f3vinnuf\u00e6r vegna heilabl\u00f3\u00f0falls og Gazza var\u00f0
\nvitni a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed \u00feegar yngri br\u00f3\u00f0ir eins vinar hans l\u00e9st \u00feegar eki\u00f0 var \u00e1 hann.
\nFyrsta \u00e1fengissopann smakka\u00f0i hann 14 \u00e1ra gamall og var\u00f0 veikur af og lofa\u00f0i
\nsj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r a\u00f0 smakka aldrei \u00e1fengi aftur, lofor\u00f0 sem hann n\u00e1\u00f0i a\u00f0 halda \u00ed heil
\nfj\u00f6gur \u00e1r. Ekki lei\u00f0 \u00e1 l\u00f6ngu a\u00f0 hann var farinn a\u00f0 stela \u00far b\u00fa\u00f0um til \u00feess a\u00f0
\ngeta fj\u00e1rmagna\u00f0 f\u00edkn s\u00edna \u00ed spilakassa og \u00e1 einhverjum t\u00edmapunkti greindist
\nhann me\u00f0 \u00fer\u00e1hyggjur\u00f6skun. \u00der\u00e1tt fyrir \u00feessi \u00e1f\u00f6ll var hann fjandi g\u00f3\u00f0ur \u00ed
\nknattspyrnu, s\u00e9rstaklega \u00e1 s\u00ednum yngri \u00e1rum og \u00fear me\u00f0 v\u00e6ntanlega m\u00f6rgum
\nfyrirmynd og innbl\u00e1stur en er \u00e1 ferilinn lei\u00f0 halla\u00f0i undan f\u00e6ti hj\u00e1 honum og
\n\u00feekktari var\u00f0 hann fyrir ofbeldi og misnotkun \u00e1fengis og eiturlyfja me\u00f0al
\nannars (Stewart, 2008<\/span>). V\u00e6ntanlega \u00fe\u00e1 bl\u00e1si\u00f0 f\u00e1um
\nbyr undir brj\u00f3st me\u00f0 \u00feeirri heg\u00f0un sinni, en engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur, viss fyrirmynd.<\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n
\nSam Tillen benti
\n\u00e1 a\u00f0 hann hafi noti\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0s af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 eiga foreldra sem kenndu honum a\u00f0 \u00feekkja
\nmuninn \u00e1 r\u00e9ttu og r\u00f6ngu og nefnir a\u00f0 \u201eekki eitt augnablik hugsa\u00f0i \u00e9g um a\u00f0 apa
\n\u00feetta upp eftir honum\u201c, \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 hann hafi s\u00f3tt innbl\u00e1stur til Gazza (Tillen, 2012<\/span>). En \u00fev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur, b\u00faa ekki \u00f6ll
\nb\u00f6rn svo vel a\u00f0 eiga g\u00f3\u00f0a foreldra sem geta kennt b\u00f6rnum s\u00ednum g\u00f3\u00f0a si\u00f0i, hva\u00f0
\ns\u00e9 r\u00e9tt og hva\u00f0 s\u00e9 rangt og \u00fear fram eftir g\u00f6tunum. B\u00f6rn sem f\u00e6\u00f0ast \u00ed \u00feennan
\nheim geta lent \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 eiga \u00f3h\u00e6fa foreldra, e\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 foreldrar vilja \u00feau ekki
\nog gefa \u00feau til \u00e6ttlei\u00f0ingar e\u00f0a yfirgefa \u00feau jafnvel s\u00ed\u00f0ar meir \u00e1 l\u00edfslei\u00f0inni.
\nSlys geta gerst og foreldrar falla fr\u00e1 um aldur fram fr\u00e1 b\u00f6rnum s\u00ednum og svo
\nfram eftir g\u00f6tunum. Sorglegt en engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur sta\u00f0reynd.<\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n
\nB\u00f6rn l\u00e6ra \u00fea\u00f0
\nsem fyrir \u00feeim er haft og hva\u00f0 ungur nemur, gamall temur. \u00deessi tv\u00f6 spakm\u00e6li
\nsem m\u00e1 finna reglulega \u00ed p\u00e1skaeggjum \u00e1r hvert eru s\u00edgild og eiga alltaf vi\u00f0.
\nHvort sem ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0a foreldra e\u00f0a ekki, e\u00f0a foreldra yfir h\u00f6fu\u00f0. Ef foreldra
\nskortir \u00fe\u00e1 leitar ma\u00f0ur einfaldlega anna\u00f0 og \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ri n\u00fa gott ef \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ru til
\ng\u00f3\u00f0ar fyrirmyndir til \u00feess a\u00f0 l\u00edta upp til, l\u00edka \u00ed atvinnumennsku \u00ed
\nknattspyrnu. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf nefnilega heilt \u00feorp til \u00feess a\u00f0 ala upp barn og ke\u00f0jan
\nver\u00f0ur aldrei sterkari en veikasti hlekkurinn \u00ed henni leyfir. <\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n
\n\u00dea\u00f0 \u00e6ttu
\nh\u00e1launa\u00f0ir sem illa launa\u00f0ir atvinnumenn, l\u00e6sir sem \u00f3l\u00e6sir, \u00ed knattspyrnu a\u00f0
\nhuga a\u00f0, \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00feeir gera einhvern skandal af s\u00e9r, innan vallar sem utan.<\/div>\n

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\n<\/div>\n
\nHeimildir  
\n<\/b><\/div>\n
\nGascoigne, P. og Davies, H. (2004). Gazza : my story<\/i>. London :: Headline. <\/div>\n
\nStewart, R. (2008). The life and times of Paul Gascoigne –
\nTelegraph.  af http:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/sport\/football\/2292333\/The-life-and-times-of-Paul-Gascoigne.html<\/a><\/div>\n
\nTillen, S. (2012). F\u00f3tboltamenn eru ekki
\nfyrirmyndir barna. 2012<\/i>(24.
\nj\u00fal\u00ed).  af http:\/\/www.fotbolti.net\/fullStory.php?action=viewStory&id=130085<\/a><\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n

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Enski knattspyrnuma\u00f0urinn Sam Tillen kemur oft og i\u00f0ulega me\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0a pistla \u00e1 www.fotbolti.net  og gaman hefur m\u00e9r fundist a\u00f0 lesa pistlana hans hinga\u00f0 til. \u00de\u00f3 ver\u00f0 \u00e9g a\u00f0 fetta fingur \u00fat \u00ed s\u00ed\u00f0asta pistil hans a\u00f0 knattspyrnumenn s\u00e9u ekki fyrirmyndir annarra og s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi barna \u201eog setja ekki sta\u00f0al \u00ed si\u00f0fer\u00f0iskennd\u201c (Tillen, 2012) \u00feegar […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-almennt-rofl"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ledrum.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ledrum.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ledrum.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ledrum.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ledrum.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ledrum.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ledrum.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ledrum.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ledrum.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}